Life by Financial Design

Most people were never taught how to lead their financial lives.

That’s not a character flaw.

It’s a gap — and it’s fixable.

Whether you’re combining finances with a partner, starting your career, or just tired of money feeling harder than it should — you don’t need more willpower or a stricter budget.

You need the right skills, the right mindset, and a system built around your actual life.

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Managing money is a leadership skill.

And like every other leadership skill — it can be learned.

The same qualities that make someone great at leading a team, a project, or a life — clear decision-making, long-term thinking, communicating under pressure, staying accountable — are the same qualities that make someone great at managing money.

You’ve probably just never seen them connected before.

You’re in the right place if…

You're engaged or newly married

You're combining finances for the first time and want to be smart about money - without the fights.

You're early in your career

You're earning real income for the first time and want to build smart habits before bad ones take hold.

You want to be smart about money

You're not in crisis. You know what you build now will compound - and you'd rather do it intentionally.

What my clients have in common isn’t a number in their bank account.

It’s a feeling: “I know I should be doing better with money. I just don’t know how.” That’s exactly where we start.

How Financial Leadership by Design™ works

Education

You can’t manage what you don’t understand. We start by filling the gaps — how money actually works, clearly explained, without jargon.

Mindset

Your money story is running your financial life whether you know it or not. We name it, examine it, and start rewriting the parts that aren’t working.

Behavior

Lasting change isn’t willpower — it’s systems. We build habits and structures so automatic that managing money stops feeling like a chore.

Not a generic plan handed to you. A financial life designed around your values, your goals, and what actually matters to you.

What changes when you do this work

You and your partner are finally on the same page about money.

Not just agreeing to a budget — genuinely aligned on what you value, where you’re going, and how money helps you get there. The money arguments stop because the underlying conversation has finally happened.

You have a system that runs without constant willpower

Not a budget you ‘should’ stick to. A money system so well-fitted to your actual life that following it is the path of least resistance. You stop reacting to money and start leading it.

Work with me

Three ways in, depending on where you are and what you need.

Financial Focus Session

$250

One specific question or decision. A focused 60-minute session plus a written summary of what we covered and what to do next. Credit applies toward the Masterplan if you continue.

Best for: Anyone with a specific question — no commitment required.

Financial Masterplan

$500

Your complete financial picture, clearly mapped. A 90-minute deep dive covering your full financial review, cash flow analysis, top three priorities, and a personalized action plan.

Best for: Individuals or couples who want clarity and a solid starting point.

Coaching Program

$667/mo

Build your full money system over 3–6 months. Biweekly coaching calls, accountability, a personalized financial system, and the habits and mindset shifts to make it last. 10% off when paid upfront.

Best for: Anyone ready to stop reacting and start designing.

Start with the Financial Health Assessment

Hi, I’m Adell.

I’ve spent over 20 years helping people build a healthy, confident relationship with money — from high school classrooms to one-on-one counseling with military families navigating some of the most financially complex situations imaginable.

I hold an AFC® designation and a Bachelor’s degree in Family Finance. But what I bring to this work isn’t just credentials. It’s a deep belief that managing money is a learnable skill — and that everyone deserves to feel like the financial leader of their own life, not a passenger in it.

I started Life by Financial Design because I kept seeing the same gap: smart, capable people who had never been given the right education, the right framework, or the right support at the moment it would have mattered most. That’s what I’m here to fix.

Read more about my story and approach →

What clients say

You don’t have to figure this out alone.

Start with a free Financial Health Assessment — a short self-reflection that shows you exactly where you are and what to focus on first. No obligation, no sales pitch. Just clarity.